October 2011

12 TIPS FOR USING METAPHORS TO SHOW EMPATHY

In The Joy of Conflict Resolution, Gary Harper examines the use of metaphors to enhance our listening skills--and our ability to empathize.

Metaphors can help us relate to other people's experiences -- and better describe our own. Here are some examples adapted from his book:

1. End of your rope...

2. Out of the loop...

3. See you as the heavy...

4. Between a rock and a hard place...

5. We need a better road map...

6. Sounds like a broken record...

7. Flying by the seat of your pants...

8. Hitting a wall...

9. The rug's been pulled out from under your feet...

10. He's like a lone wolf...

11. Out on a limb....

12. Hung out to dry...

* Adapted from Gary Harper, The Joy of Conflict Resolution, New Society Publishers, 2004